In this heartfelt and laughter-filled episode of The Circle of Hope, I reconnect with my brilliant, soulful, and multifaceted friend, AJ Thomas. Our journey together—spanning unexpected musical moments, executive coaching at Berkeley, and transformative collaborations at Google X—sets the stage for a candid conversation about the art of building deep, enduring connections both personally and professionally. AJ shares her inspiring career arc: venturing from corporate leadership at Google and Alphabet to founding her own VC firm, Good Trouble Ventures, where she now pioneers the fusion of creativity, technology, and impact. We dive deep into what it really takes to create relationships that transcend time and space—the magic that allows you to pick up with someone right where you left off. AJ gives us a peek into her journey, the influence of her grandfather, her “why not me?” moments, and how belonging starts from within. Together, we explore the challenges and opportunities of bridging humanity and technology, the importance of authentic curiosity, and the power of being your best (and truest) self in every room you enter. It’s a rich, soulful, and joy-infused conversation you won’t want to miss! Watch This If: - You’re curious about making and sustaining deep personal or professional relationships - You want to know how to switch—and thrive—in radically different careers - You’re seeking inspiration about blending creativity and business - You wonder how to stay grounded as technology transforms our lives - You want tactical tips on creating authentic, resilient connections - You need a reminder of the power (and importance) of belonging Episode Highlights: [00:01:15] – The unforgettable moment AJ serenaded our group with “Over the Rainbow” and how music ignites connection [00:04:57] – AJ and I reflect on the roots of our friendship and what makes “soul surfing” conversations so special [00:10:13] – The secret sauce of enduring friendships: mutual curiosity and presence [00:15:29] – How AJ leapt from Google X into venture capital, guided by curiosity and creativity [00:30:37] – Being the “Selma Bridge”: AJ’s vision for connecting creatives and technologists [00:36:03] – The lessons AJ’s grandfather and children instilled—about competition, courage, and staying true [00:45:20] – Navigating connection in the age of AI: why being a great human matters more than ever Quotes to Remember: - “You must first belong to you so that whatever room you walk into, you’re already present.” – AJ Thomas - “Every job I’ve had, I’ve never done before. That’s just my pioneering spirit.” – AJ Thomas - “Mutual curiosity is the basis of deep connection, in any relationship.” – Valerie Hope - “We are one decision or connection away from a radically different life.” – AJ Thomas What You’ll Learn: - How to foster lasting connections that survive distance and time - The role of mutual curiosity in deep personal and professional relationships - Strategies for reinventing your career—even when it means starting from scratch - The importance of bringing your full, creative self into every space - How to blend business, creativity, and service to make real impact - Why belonging is foundational—and starts with belonging to yourself - Navigating relationships and leadership in a rapidly evolving, tech-driven world Contact Information: Guest: AJ Thomas - Website: https://www.thetroublemakerlab.com - Website: https://www.helloajthomas.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/helloajthomas/?hl=en - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/chaospilot Host: Valerie Hope - Website:https://www.valeriehope.com - Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/ - LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/ - Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope - Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing. #SoulfulLeadership #VentureCapital #AuthenticConnection #CreativityAndBusiness #CircleOfHope

In this episode of The Circle of Hope, I sit down with my long-time friend and colleague, Rahim Saafir, to explore two decades of friendship, growth, and the power of authentic relationships. We reminisce about our journey at the Hyatt Regency DFW, where Rahim began working in security after leaving government work and transitioned into Human Resources—thanks, in part, to his unstoppable drive and the support of key mentors and connectors. Rahim shares how a chance encounter at a Taco Bueno drive-thru opened doors to the hospitality industry and ultimately to a fulfilling career as Director of Human Resources. But this episode isn’t just about career moves. It’s a heartfelt exploration of what it means to give freely, the challenges of family and friendship, and the importance of making clear, actionable requests for support. Rahim opens up about receiving difficult health news, how he leaned on connections outside of family, and why he believes in paying kindness forward—always “plus one.” If you’ve ever struggled with how to create genuine bonds or wondered why giving matters, you’ll find wisdom, warmth, and practical takeaways in our conversation. Watch This If: - You’re looking to deepen your relationships and create a circle of genuine connections - You want inspiration for overcoming career roadblocks or changing industries - You struggle with asking for support from friends or family - You’re seeking motivation to help others and “pay it forward” - You value transparency and authenticity in both personal and professional circles Episode Highlights: [00:01:07] Rahim shares the story of starting at Hyatt in security and the hurdles he faced transitioning into HR [00:04:06] The heart behind Rahim’s “gate opener” mentality: why he’s committed to lifting others up [00:07:18] From flipping tacos to hospitality: the chance encounter that changed Rahim’s career direction [00:13:31] What Rahim looks for when connecting people to opportunities—and how Valerie does the same [00:21:20] Rahim’s candid advice to his children (and listeners): how to choose and define true friendships [00:24:22] Navigating tough times: Rahim opens up about his cancer diagnosis and which connections supported him most [00:45:46] Valerie and Rahim discuss the importance of making explicit requests to get your needs met Quotes to Remember: - “In order to receive a blessing... you’ve got to give one, if not more.” —Rahim Saafir - “Once you establish a genuine connection with someone, it’s there... even if you only talk two or three times a year.” —Rahim Saafir - “Be very careful who you have in your circle and call friend... I have a lot of associates, but I have very few friends.” —Rahim Saafir - “The easiest way to get that need met is to make a request... not just holding them to an invisible standard or an unspoken expectation.” —Valerie Hope What You’ll Learn: - How a small act of kindness or connection can jumpstart an unexpected career path - The importance of being “a gate opener”—using your influence to help others - The value of transparency and clear requests in deepening relationships - Why giving to others often leads to personal fulfillment and growth - How to discern genuine relationships and teach others (especially your children) to do the same - Tips for maintaining meaningful connections across time and distance - The difference between asking for help from family vs. mentors or friends Let’s Stay Connected: Guest: Rahim Saafir - LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/rahimsaafir Host: Valerie Hope - Website:https://www.valeriehope.com - Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/ - LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/ - Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope - Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing. #CircleOfHope #RelationshipBuilding #PayItForward #AuthenticConnections #CareerGrowth

In this heartfelt episode of The Circle of Hope podcast, I sit down for a lively, soul-nourishing conversation with my dear friend of fifteen years, Keisha Carpenter-Ricks. What began as a simple meeting at a haircare class blossomed into a rich, lasting friendship built on intentionality, mutual growth, and a shared zest for life. Keisha opens up about her journey from being my hairstylist to branching out as an entrepreneur, real estate professional, and coach, all while nurturing meaningful connections that go far beyond transactional roles. Together, we explore what makes relationships truly thrive—from the “mirror effect” of authentic friendships to the importance of investing time and energy where it matters most. We dive into how to recognize relationships that feed your soul, how to let go (gracefully) when seasons change, and why knowing your identity and maintaining intentionality is more vital than ever. Whether you’re looking to build deeper connections, seeking wisdom for life’s transitions, or just want to witness some joyful, authentic banter, this episode is for you! Watch This If: - You’re longing for deeper, more authentic friendships and connections. - You’re navigating transitions in career or personal relationships. - You want practical tips on building trust and intimacy in any circle of influence. - You value the intersection of personal growth, faith, and real-world wisdom. - You enjoy hearing real conversations about the power of intentionality and reciprocity. Episode Highlights: [00:01:05] Keisha and I reminisce about our first meeting at a Dallas haircare event—a fateful moment that set our friendship in motion. [00:03:44] Keisha shares what made our client-stylist relationship unique and how true connection requires intentionality beyond the surface. [00:13:51] We talk about the “mirror effect” in friendships—how authenticity and receptivity nurture deep, joyful relationships. [00:27:18] I break down the “trust equation” and how it’s shown up powerfully throughout our years knowing each other. [00:30:44] Keisha discusses the shift from behind-the-chair conversations to nurturing client relationships as a real estate agent and coach. [00:39:15] We address how to know when it’s time to end or “fire” a client or relationship, and the value of protecting your time and energy. [00:53:07] Keisha opens up about how knowing and grounding yourself in identity can fundamentally impact every circle of influence. Quotes to Remember: - “I get an opportunity to pour into my clients in such a unique, authentic, and genuine way. But not with all of them do I experience the level of discovery that you and I have shared over the years.” — Keisha Carpenter-Ricks - “I think relationships are really a mirror, and especially when we go deep, they reflect back what we’re trying to put out into the world.” — Valerie Hope - “Know who you are and whose you are. Because if you are clear on your identity, no one else can define you.” — Keisha Carpenter-Ricks - “Every relationship that develops on a deeper level has intentionality from both sides; there’s a longing for discovery that keeps us coming back for the next conversation.” — Valerie Hope What You’ll Learn: - Why intentionality is the secret ingredient to cultivating meaningful, reciprocal relationships. - Practical ways to recognize and build trustworthy circles of influence. - How to gracefully let go of relationships or clients when it’s no longer a fit for your energy or values. - The power of self-knowledge and identity in building resilience against outside definitions. - How personal and professional pivots can still reflect your core values of generosity, service, and authenticity. - Tips for nurturing relationships in any setting—from hairstylist’s chair to real estate deals to lifelong friendships. Contact Information: Guest: Keisha Carpenter Ricks - Website: https://www.keisharicks.com/ - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keishacricks/ - LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/keisha-carpenter-ricks - Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KeishaYourRealtor Host: Valerie Hope - Website:https://www.valeriehope.com - Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/ - LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/ - Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope - Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing. #IntentionalConnections #AuthenticFriendship #CircleOfHope #PersonalGrowth #TrustAndJoy